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Question for all you Ladies and Gents

Nov 20, 2008 2:18 am Report Abuse

Hello all,

Recently, I have started playing more live cash games. I do very well when Im on my game.

I play because I love it not because i need the money. Yes it's great, Im not dissing that aspect. However, on more than one occasion I have been barraded by all the men at my table. I am appauled by the sexist treatment I have been subjected to and I want to know how other ladies deal with this aspect of poker. I will not be discriminated against because some ass is scared to have a woman at there table. last night for example, before I even sat down at my table ALL the men told me to leave. they said "we are sexist and do not want a woman at our table, go away" word for word. Then because I wouldn't leave, I had a big tartget on my back and whenever I was in any hand they would call me down (no matter the raise) and keep sucking out catching runner runner flush or trips 2's. Sick.

I just keep hitting this wall when it comes to tables that treat me bad because Im a woman.

Ladies, Any advice on how handle this situation (obviously taking all there money helps) OR how to approach the Casino (pit) when this happens. Thanks all and Good luck at the tables!

Islandbeauty



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rtenley Nov 20, 2008 2:34 am
Thats horrible I would try to find a new pokerroom. If not try headphones for music and ignore the idiots.
Spiltbongwater Nov 20, 2008 2:36 am
I am not a woman, so take it as yo may. I would tell the dealer, that that kind of talk is rude and uncalled for for anyone to have to hear. If the dealer refuses to take action, whether a time out for the players, or some sort of penalty, then call the floor. I would imagine that casinos would have policies in place dealing with harrassment, or discrimination of anysort. This is 2008. I could see this being acceptable behavior in the 1940s, but today it is out of line.
peacebrother Nov 20, 2008 2:37 am
Not sure where you play, but I have never seen this happen. I play live 2-3 days a week.
JAG_USMC Nov 20, 2008 2:40 am
Whenever some mouthy a-hole finally gets under my skin I shift gears and go gushy on them. "Oh WOW, you are my hero (fill in the blank)! I wanna be just like you when I grow up! How can I learn to play poker like you do?" and then quietly wait for the hand to DESTROY them... Often I'll get other players laughing and siding with me (to the chagrin of the a-hole). Admittedly, I am not female, and the Marine Corps emblem on my avatar suggests that I am difficult to intimidate, but I has taken significant crap from foreigners who have some problem with the US.
Ultimately, mute the idiots, play your best game and take all their money. Success speaks for itself and requires no further explanation.
GirlLynn Nov 20, 2008 2:44 am

I WUDDA TOLD THEM TO BITE ME, AND PLAYED MY GAME IGNORE THEM OR GO TO A NEW TABLE. DONT PUT UP WITH MENS SHIT

P M S ............................Railbird image uploaded: Oct 8, 2008 10:11 pm

Pay-It-Forward Nov 20, 2008 2:46 am

IB, talk to Pokerchix http://www.railbirds.com/rails/Pokerchix/

She's played at quite a few casinos, and I'm sure she's run into just about everything in her travels.

Another good advisor/mentor would be Jane, http://www.railbirds.com/rails/pkrplr4116/

She's also played quite a bit.

Jeff

drywallman41 Nov 20, 2008 3:05 am

I say CHOMPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP them Sexist mf'sssssssssssss

CHOMPCHOMP.

Annie-up Nov 20, 2008 3:09 am
I can be a bit of a wise azz from time to time. I might say don't worry boys I'm not here to take your chips, Im here as a PI to watch a guy just ignore me . Bet that might make some move even . lmbo
Rashenoff Nov 20, 2008 3:25 am

That is just wrong some guys just never grow up. I would find a new place to play even thow you should not have to the dealer should take care of this i would belive. That kind of behavour just make's me sick hang in there we are not all like that.

GOOD LUCK

kardchik Nov 20, 2008 3:38 am
I play live a couple of days a week and at a wide variety of card rooms/casinos. I have only come across a few men with that attitude. Most of them think they can take your money because they are superior. I would probably have some smart ass comment to them and then sit down and be super aggressive. You can always talk to a pit supervisor on the side. Any other casinos in the area? Good Luck- Where is this- maybe i wanna come play too!! Nothing like a bunch of women to piss them off!
djgeter Nov 20, 2008 4:15 am

As a player, you cant let your emotions get the best of you, or at least show them(unless you are a great actor). That being said the dealers job is to control the table. That kind of talk is agianst ettiquette. I if the dealer does nothing, you would simply have to ask. "can you do something about this?', and if the dealer does nothing call for the pit. You obviously cant paint a bigger target on yourself. Let the pit embarase them in front of eachother.

Its a matter of pride with men. Some cant stand being beaten by a woman. Just think about what they are really saying. "hi i am insecure, i need to make you feel bad in order to try ang get any edge in this game i can, because i am such a bad player." ignore him and only showdown the nuts for them everytime, then your bets may get some respect.

love you, if i was there i would have said something.

mikeheydt Nov 20, 2008 4:26 am
HONESTLY IF THEY KEPT HITTING RUNNER RUNNER, SOUNDS LIKE ONE OF THEM IS A MECHANIC AND THEY HAD AN UNFAIR ADVANTAGE
tennkid777 Nov 20, 2008 4:36 am
Dang that sucks bad. thats just horrible to hear. im a guy and dont have any problem playing women.
islandbeauty Nov 20, 2008 6:36 pm

Thanks everyone. I really appreciate your comments.

Regards,

Island


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