Dead Beat Moms!

Hey good luck to you.

Your little girl looks like an angel. I am sorry you have probs with her Mother with access, etc. I can associate with that as my son only gets Olivia 3 nights a fortnight. Naturally we would like more time with her.

Its going to be Ok..just think no matter what in the end its what you give to her (love) that matters...I know that it isnt easy to deal with her Mommy's short comings, everyday to have to deal with the questions on why she doesnt want here own child?, what did she do to deserve a mom that doesnt want her?..and there will be a million more as she gets older, including all those that you have right now....but in the end all that is going to matter is how you deal with the now..and so far I know your doing a great job

Sorry your short vacation was inruputed but it will be 'otay and so will you...

~Flops~

Sorry Johnny it sucks when a parent does that. Whether its a mom or a dad.

I found party time was more important to my ex. and If I was working then he would drive around and fine my mother to get rid of my daughter. I say my cause he sure was no dad and still isn't. And yes alcohol was and is still his problem.

But who loses out the most the kids.

Thank-fully your daughter ( and I must say she looks like a cutie ) has you.

God Bless

Kath

i am sorry you have to go through this. my one son michael is a special needs child and he needs around the clock care but his mother does not want to put him in a home because of the ssi check he gets every month for over $600 . over the past year he has had "accidents" that do not fit the injury. i will be addressing this in court because it is the only way he can get the professional help that he needs. your daughter looks like a very sweet child and you are a great father. may things only get better for the both of you and she will remember what her mother has done and will remind her mother of the times she overlooked her. i know it is hard but continue on and things will get better.

too bad for your little girl. My brothers and I were raised by our dad. Mom left dad when i was 12, my brothers were 7 (twins). 3 months later she let my dad move us 1,200 miles away and since then we see her once a year sometimes every other year.

So you just never know about moms. Be a great dad and sounds like you are.

Thank you all for the comments, i just know now ,how single moms feel when they talk about the dads when they dont spend time with their own child and give the child the love they deserve. it is really sad for the child, and it kinda hurts! Maybe someday my little one will get a new mommy! lol

ugggg. I am an optimistic person and hope that people do right by you or their children however, the older i get it just doesn't seem to happen. grrrrr. Thank goodness G has a great father like you and ya'll will be ok because of that.

Take care

Hope

Awwwwwwwww johhny you a good daddy. She is lucky to have you. I wish my grandson had one good parent. Becareful they grow so fast and soon they are gone so enjoy every minute. Wooooooooosssssssssshhhhhhhh

Great dad is all I can say...for them mom , a different story. I have 2 grandkids who their mom doesn't ever see them, actually their aunt keeps them, has custody of them. I would keep them in a heartbeat had the courts allowed me too, but their mom chose her sister..

It's sad and maybe someday your daughter will be like my granddaughter now who will soon be 7 and was probably your little girls age when her mom gave her up, but now she could care less if she sees her, in fact would come here for the weekend than go see her mom or spend anytime with her. It really breaks my heart to hear of women like this.. just don't understand some of them, and its usually related to alchohol or drugs unfortunately.

Anyway, keep up the good work, your a fantastic dad already for all you have done already! She is so adorable!!

Problem solved, now get back to the poker...lol...

Hey Johnny you take care of business and be the good dad. That's what you do and you should be proud of it. There's always time for poker. Family comes first

Awe man, Fingers that is soooooooooooooooo funny! wish it was that simple sometimes roflmao, my tummy hurts now

just do what u do best ,be the great dad that u r

Sorry to hear that your having problems with the mom....but yr daughter looks like a bundle of joy!!!!!

From one dad to another. Thumbs up to you for being a stand up dad. Kids come first nomatter what.

PS. She is so beautiful.

Your daughter has a great dad......she will be fine, Be thankful you don't have to be with mom. I'm sure this is the tip of the iceberg with her issues. The daughter is so lucky to be living you.

Thank you all for the comforting thoughts! I do whst needs to be done for my daughter. I LOVE HER SOOOOOOOO MUCH!

Looks like you are doing a good job,just keep loving her.She knows you love her.I have 2 sons,and 1 of them his dad has never seen him,maybe for a whole hour his entire life,and he is 13,and for the first 5 yrs he had the hour from his dad,and I had an open door policy with him about his son,and didnt ask for c/s,just wanted him to be a part of his sons life,well maybe about 10min when he did see him,then it was set up for him to come get his son,and I wouldnt hear from him or anything as to why he didnt show to get his son,and a month or more I would hear from him,and same ole same ole.I just looked at it that my son knows who has been there for him,,and so will your daughter,she is pretty by the way.Yes it does go both ways as far as the mother,or father not being there for their kids.

Have a good day..

I can SO relate...but I'm a grandmother who is raising my two granddaughters. Although my son lives with us--he has a business and is seldom home. This weekend was Mom's. but she cancelled at the last moment--she hasn't seen them for over a month...as a matter of fact she hasn't phoned them--except to cancel this weekend's visit. But here's the scoop--I feel priviledged to be their Nanny--they constantly delight and amaze me...and even though I, sometimes, wish I had more time for myself--I know that raising them is "the right thing to do". Parenthood, at any age is selfless--yet so rewarding.