Once again I have recieved an Email from a friend that I want to share with you, my Railbird friends !
I wish all the young and all medical professionals could see this and remember it. It's invaluable.
We'll all be there someday...
When an old man died in the geriatric ward of a small hospital
near Tampa, Florida, it was believed that he had nothing left of
any value.
Later, when the nurses were going through his meager
possessions, they found this poem. Its quality and content
so impressed the staff that copies were made and distributed
to every nurse in the hospital.
One nurse took her copy to Missouri. The old man's sole
bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas
edition of the News Magazine of the St. Louis Association
for Mental Health. A slide presentation has also been
made based on his simple, but eloquent, poem.
And this little old man, with nothing left to give to the world,
is now the author of this 'anonymous' poem winging across the Internet.
Crabby Old Man
What do you see nurses? .What do you see?
What are you thinking.... ..............when you're looking at me?
A crabby old man ......................not very wise,
Uncertain of habit .....................with faraway eyes?
Who dribbles his food ...............and makes no reply.
When you say in a loud voice ...'I do wish you'd try!'
Who seems not to notice...........the things that you do.
And forever is losing ................ A sock or shoe?
Who, resisting or not................lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding ......... the long day to fill?
Is that what you're thinking?... ..Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes, nurse......you're not looking at me.
I'll tell you who I am . as I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding, .........as I eat at your will.
I'm a small child of ten............with a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters .... ..........who love one another
A young boy of sixteen .........with wings on his feet
Dreaming that soon now... .....a lover he'll meet.
A groom soon at twenty........my heart gives a leap.
Remembering, the vows........that I promised to keep.
At twenty-five, now ............. I have young of my own.
Who need me to guide .and secure a happy home.
A man of thirty .....................my young now grown fast,
Bound to each other .......... with ties that should last.
At forty, my young sons ...........have grown and are gone,
But my woman's beside me.......to see I don't mourn.
At fifty, once more, . babies play 'round my knee,
Again, we know children . my beloved and me.
Dark days are upon me ..... my wife is now dead.
I look at the future .... ...........I shudder with dread.
For my young ....................are all rearing young of their own.
And I think of the years...... and the love that I've known.
I'm now an old man............and nature is cruel.
Tis jest to make old age ....look like a fool.The body, it
crumbles........grace and vigor, depart.
There is now a stone.... ...where I once had a heart.
But inside this old carcass . a young guy still dwells,
And now and again .................my battered heart swells.
I remember the joys................ I remember the pain.
And I'm loving and living...........life over again!
I think of the years...all too few..........gone too fast.
And accept the stark fact.................that nothing can last.
So open your eyes, people .open and see..
Not a crabby old man..................... Look closer...see ME!!
Remember this poem
when you next meet an older person who you
might brush aside without looking at the young soul within .
we will all, one day, be there, too!!!
The best and most beautiful things of this world can't be seen or
touched.
They must be felt by the heart. I felt this one, did you ?
.....Topcat.....
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But inside this old carcass . a young guy still dwells,
GREAT LINE [MAKES YA THINK ]
GREAT AS ALWAYS TC LOVED IT
ohh damn dude,,,as one of my favorite sayings is " youth is wasted on the young" this man,old guy,still yoong at heart felt everything a life has to offer and before he died he shared it with the world and the world is embracein it as we talk !!! What a life,, i can only hope i can do the same, i could only regret the pain and the only fear i have of dieing alone,,,
Great blog ..."topcat"...p-nuttin
From now on I would appreciate if these type of blogs came with this..
WARNING.. FEELINGS AHEAD, grab a tissue and make sure your alone !!!
If any of you belive in the eternal soul, this is all just wasted youth anyway.
Remember, dirty old men were once dirt young men when it was cool, they just haven't changed their taste's.
TY Topcat every day should start with the humility and grattitude that this email brings.
Peace, J
TC, many thanks for sharing this email with us all. I have copied and pasted and printed it out. My best friend, Kay works in a nursing home as a Domestic and she mourns that so many don't see the Residents as people who lived and loved and shared so much with society. Kay takes home bits of sewing and takes up a nightie for a Lady or 2 and she is rewarded with little stories of their life. But then, Kay is a kind soul and reaps so much love as she gives out so much love.
Many, many thanks.
TopCat thank you for sharing this. My mama is 82 and I dread the fact that one day she might be like that.
I always remember how precious she is to me and hope at 82 I can do the things she can.
I am old as dirt - but my heart can still hurt
you are so so cute - I can no longer flirt
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